on mondays, uncle henry usually comes over to hang out with us while mommy and daddy play volleyball together. if uncle henry can’t make it, we have a handful of other aunties and uncles who would like to come and play. but today, uncle henry wasn’t feeling well, and all of our other aunties and uncles weren’t available on short notice. no problem. mommy planned to sit out the match and ask daddy to find another girl to sub for her. but before mommy could let daddy know, he texted her and asked her to help find a sub for one of the other girls on the team. uh oh. if mommy skipped volleyball, her team would have to forfeit.
so mommy had to make a choice.
- leave sienna and me home with gung-gung. gung-gung is pretty good at taking care of one of us, but he can’t handle both of us. individually, we are pretty good. but together, we can be mischievous, we sometimes fight, and we don’t listen to gung-gung very well.
- bring one of us to volleyball. if mommy was to bring just one of us, it would be me. i am a better listener, i am less likely to run onto the court, and i am more independent than sienna (like, if i had to go potty in the middle of a game, i could go by myself). but, if i got to go to volleyball and sienna didn’t, she would be SO PISSED and it would make her (and gung-gung’s) night miserable.
- bring both of us to volleyball. sienna and i play together all the time and we both could draw/write/color and cut paper for hours. the risk is that we might fight and then one (or both) of us would run onto the court crying, or maybe we would get tired and whiny and want mommy to hold us, or maybe one of us would have a potty accident…
i guess there were a lot of things that could have gone wrong, but apparently, mommy didn’t think about them. sienna and i promised to be on our best behavior — i even offered to help sienna go potty if she needed to go. so mommy agreed to bring both of us to volleyball.
when we arrived at the gym, mommy gave us a choice between staying in the lobby and doing activities (where there was plenty of room to run around) or coming inside the gym to watch volleyball (but we’d have to sit on the bleachers and not walk around). we picked the lobby. so mommy set us up at a table with our dinner, activity books, scissors, crayons, rescue bots, and plenty of scratch paper. she showed us where the restrooms were and she pointed out the court that she and daddy would be playing on. there were big windows where we could see into the gym, but mommy made it very clear that we were not to go into the gym unless there was an emergency.
mommy and daddy were lined up and ready to play their first game, when all of a sudden, i wandered into the gym, headed in their direction. daddy ran over to me to find out what the emergency was. sienna had dropped some of her food on the floor. apparently, that didn’t qualify as an emergency.
after that minor incident, the night went smoothly. sienna and i ate our dinner. we did our activities. we said hi to the auntie and uncles we recognized as they arrived for their games. auntie jen even sat down and hung out with us for a little while before her games started. i was a super good listener all night. sienna was good except for when she used her plastic scissors as chopsticks to eat her dinner. oh, and also when we were standing in the doorway watching mommy and daddy play and sienna pushed me into the gym. she knew we weren’t supposed to be in there and she just wanted me to get in trouble.
mommy’s teammates were nice enough to let her skip reffing and take us home at a decent hour. still, it was past our bedtime and mommy expected us to fall asleep in the car on the drive home. we didn’t. we were too excited from the fun night we had. sienna and i hope we get to go to volleyball with mommy all the time. maybe uncle henry should come to volleyball with us and open childcare services in the lobby. i med